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Congratulations on finalizing your adoption! Now that the long journey is over, it’s time to focus on the next chapter of your family’s story. As experienced adoption professionals, Courage Community Foster Care has compiled a list of the 10 most important things to do after your adoption is finalized. Discover what steps you should take to make the transition as smooth and successful as possible for your family.

1. Have a Party 

After months or even years of waiting and going through the adoption process, your new child is finally home with you. It’s a momentous occasion that deserves to be celebrated!

Hosting a welcome home party for your child is a great way to introduce them to your family and friends and to show them how loved and supported they are. You can send out invitations, decorate your home, and prepare your child’s favorite foods. Balloons, cake, and ice cream are always a hit with kids and adults alike.

This celebration will not only help your child feel more welcomed and comfortable in their new home but also serves as a way for you and your loved ones to bond and create special memories together.

2. Get an Updated Birth Certificate 

One important thing to do after the adoption process is to update your child’s birth certificate if he or she was born under a different name. You need to make sure that the birth certificate reflects your child’s new name.

The updated birth certificate will show that you are the child’s legal parents. It’s important to have a copy of this updated birth certificate for legal and identification purposes.

3. Request for New Social Security Cards 

If your adopted child has a social security card when you adopted them, you need to have it changed at a social security office near you. You can request for new social security number and request them to put your child’s new name in it. 

4. Apply for Health Insurance 

Once you have finalized the adoption process, your child may come with different health insurance options. They may have state-provided or public insurance. You will need to update their name with the insurance company after updating their birth certificate and social security card.

You may also have the option to add them to your private health insurance. Contact your insurance company to learn more about the process and requirements for adding your adopted child to your insurance plan. Having proper health insurance coverage for your child is important for their overall health and well-being.

5. Spend Time With Your Family 

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After updating important documents such as the birth certificate, a social security card, and health insurance, it’s important to prioritize spending time with your new child.

The first few weeks should be dedicated to family time to allow everyone to bond and adjust to the new living arrangements. Adoption is a big change for the entire family, including your new child, other children (if you have any), and the parents.

This bonding time will help everyone develop familiarity with each other and create a strong foundation before including outsiders such as extended family and friends.

6. Continue Learning About Adoption

The adoption process is a continuous learning experience for the family. It’s important to continue educating yourself about adoption even after the process has been completed.

Reading books and online resources can help facilitate a smooth transition for your new child to your home. It’s helpful to have books readily available so you can refer to them for information and guidance as your child grows up. Staying informed about adoption-related issues can also help you support your child in the best way possible.

7. Establish a Daily Routine for Your Child

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After the adoption process has been finalized, establishing a daily routine for your new child is crucial in providing structure and developing familiar habits in your household. Creating a routine can be done gradually by introducing small things one by one, such as setting specific times for meals, playtime, and bedtime.

For instance, a bedtime routine may consist of bathing, putting on clean pajamas, reading a bedtime story, and ending with lights out. By performing each task in the same order at the same time every night, your child will feel secure and know what to expect, which can ease their transition into your family.

A structured routine provides a sense of comfort and consistency, making it easier for your new child to adapt to their new environment.

8. Consider Seeking Counseling for Your Family’s Adjustment

Adoption can be a big adjustment for the entire family, which is why it’s important to consider seeking counseling for support. A counselor can provide guidance and assistance to help your family through this transition.

If you adopted an older child, it may be especially beneficial to enroll them in counseling to help them adjust to their new home. Counseling can also help you and your partner navigate any challenges that may arise during this time.

You can ask your adoption agency for recommendations for a counselor who can help you and your family adapt to your new life together.

9. Provide For Your Child’s Needs 

As a new adoptive parent, it is crucial to provide for your child’s physical, emotional, and developmental needs. Before bringing your child home, make sure you are fully prepared to meet their needs and provide them with the essentials they require to settle in comfortably.

You will need to prepare a bed, bedding, clothes, food, toys, bath supplies, grooming items, a first aid kit, and any necessary medications. As you get to know your child, you will need to pay attention to their unique needs and provide support to help them thrive.

This could include enrolling them in extracurricular activities or seeking out specialized therapies if needed. Make sure to prioritize your child’s needs to create a safe and nurturing environment for them to grow and flourish.

10. Be Flexible as a Parent 

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As a parent of a newly adopted child, it’s important to be flexible and understanding. Your child has likely experienced trauma and separation from their biological family, which can impact their behavior and reactions to certain situations.

It’s essential to make them feel accepted, loved, and cared for in your family. Don’t assume that your child’s attitudes and reactions will be the same as yours, as every child is different.

You must be willing to learn and adjust to what works best for you and your child. Communication is key, especially if your child is older. Let them know that you’re there to support them and that they can come to you with anything. Parenthood comes with both joys and challenges, so it’s important to be patient and prepared for whatever may come.

Make sure to provide your child with a safe and supportive environment, along with meeting their physical and emotional needs. Remember to prioritize family time and develop routines that will help your child feel secure in their new home. Finally, don’t be afraid to seek support from a counselor or adoption agency if you need it.

Are you considering adoption in Colorado? Courage Community Foster Care can guide you through the step-by-step process. As a licensed public adoption and foster agency, we can provide assistance in all aspects of adoption. If you would like to learn more about the adoption process or need support, please do not hesitate to contact us.

You can reach us by phone at 719-321-4319 or by email at You may also contact us by mail at P.O. Box 262 Cascade, CO 80809. Allow us to help you navigate the legal aspects of adoption and find your forever family.